What can I say instead of “because I said so”?

Use Reason + Boundary + Choice. Example: “We’re leaving now because the store is closing. Not optional. You can carry the basket or grab the list.”

Is explaining the why the same as negotiating?

No. Give the reason once, then offer a choice inside the limit and hold the boundary.

When you pair brief reasons with firm limits, kids argue less over time and cooperate more.

Use a clear no for safety in the moment, then circle back with the why so the value still lands.

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